The Art Of Intentional Seduction

The Art of Intentional Seduction:

‘Seduction is not manipulation or performance; it’s about consciously creating the conditions in which someone wants to move toward something.’

Hi I’m Mae, Welcome to my event, a private couples workshop. This is a And I was once a successful professional escort. I didn’t do things the way others did, for one I had my own dedicated ‘incall’ apartment, in South Yarra. A space where I created connection and fulfilment, using what I call, the art of intentional seduction.

My clients came to me for a variety of needs, and having an environment specifically created for my unique service - which was predominantly about 'connection' - played a crucial part in creating an authentic experience that was never forced or manipulative, but felt organic and ultimately satisfying.

So… eventually I felt called to another mission, I let go of my apartment and now I work with writers from a transformational mindset, helping them reframe limiting beliefs that stop them from achieving their dreams.

I use a variety of tools, including breath-work, intention setting, manifestation, neuroscience and of course meditation.

But here is what I want you to know, something I am uniquely positioned to understand with my combined experience…

Seduction is not about the outcome. It's about creating the conditions for the outcome.

As an escort, I worked a lot with couples. I even had sex therapists send their married male clients to me for therapy. But the one abiding foundation I built my couples work upon was this … it is always about the woman. Even if the man booked, even if it was him or especially if it was him behind the reason for booking in the first place … it is always the woman and her needs first. For me. So my couples always came back. I even had a successful career seeing women who wanted to explore their sexuality with another woman.

So, I have combined my two passions, my two unique skillsets, and created a transformational experience for couples who wish to reignite their desire for one another and it is based upon the principle of  - The Art of Intentional Seduction.

The Space: ‘This is about learning how to become so clear, compelling and energetically aligned with what you want to create that you create desire rather than having to chase attention.’

I hire a dedicated space for this session, using the tools and facilities of an upmarket massage location, that is NOT open to the public from 7pm onwards any day of the week or Sundays, so this is a completely private, discreet location. So these are the hours I operate. It works around my mentoring commitments, but we can alternatively prebook a suitable time in advance, if those times do not work for you.

I use this space because it is the environment of transgressive desire, and the very nature of its existence is conducive to this work - allowing the woman to step outside the familiar and inhabit the role of the desired ‘other.’ Men go to professionals for a multitude of reasons. And I immediately saw the connection that could be used to allow your partner, and not an external third party to become the object of your desire, bringing the excitement and thrill back into your marriage or long-term relationship.

Let’s face it, everything can get a little stale or boring, and the very nature of this work, in this location, lends itself to an energetic shift that can bring both parties together in a way they either haven’t explored or experienced before. It’s illicit and exciting!

But it doesn’t stop there…

The Activation: We slip into a comfortable toweling robe and begin the session using breathwork and intention setting, releasing any anxiety or nerves. Then we agree upon the mutually desired outcome and regulate our nervous system to ensure we are in flow and alignment with our planned art of seduction.

The Experience It is important to note that in this one and half hour couples experience, my role is of facilitator only. While I'm there to guide you through the sexual experiences and techniques, it is not my role or intention to participate. So with that in mind, we begin our time with guided couples sensual massage. Allowing my guidance and your intuition to initiate a massage that immediately drops you into the space and connects you to your body and that of your partner.

Tantric Massage From there we move onto tantric massage. For the woman this means learning how to perform a Lingham massage on her partner, and for the man, it means performing a Yoni massage on her. For the woman, this can mean Heightened Sensitivity: Reawakening the nervous system to the subtleties of sensation through slow, intentional, non-goal-focused touch. Rather than focusing solely on physical stimulation or reaching climax, the experience becomes an exploration of pleasure, presence and deep relaxation, with sensations potentially extending throughout the body. And for the man, this means expectation-Free Pleasure: Releases the pressure to achieve a particular physical outcome, allowing both partners to remain present with the experience rather than becoming focused on performance or expectation. Greater Awareness and Control: Encourages greater awareness of breath, sensation and arousal, allowing the experience to unfold at its own pace and supporting a deeper sense of connection and control. Once each partner has had the opportunity to fully experience the flow of Kundalini, or life-force energy, we take a moment to pause, integrate and reconnect with ourselves before returning to our shared intention: exploring mutual desire through the Art of Intentional Seduction

We finish the session with mineral water, which is readily available throughout, and of course we have shower facilities for your convenience. If you wish to discuss anything that came up for you as a couple or individually or perhaps just want to bask in the overall experience while still on an intimate high, we can do that too. Not to mention, you have now added fun new techniques and a shared sexual experience to your relationship that you carry forward into your play at home.

The Seduction of Taboo Experiences:

I have saved the most thrilling, and kink based part of the evening till last, with the full intention of capturing those of you are wanting to explore a more fetish based experience. But honestly ... I encourage everyone to try at least one, if not all! This includes both milking and pegging, edging and for those of you willing you may even wish to explore a little erotic BDSM. Milking is sensual massage of the male genitalia, using the bespoke ‘massage milking tables’. This is a very sexually kink way of massaging the male through the milking hole in the table, while he can see you. I encourage play and sexy talk, with seductive eye contact. Creating the art of intentional seduction that allows the couple to consensually push sexual boundaries. While rekindling a bit of fun ‘sexy time’ back into the relationship.

If you are so inclined to try, and I encourage you to, the art of pegging is equally enjoyable and both parties can try both giving and receiving, or either option. We can discuss the finer details via email or phone if needed. Erotic BDSM, explores edging, teasing, humiliation, and can include light bondage. I encourage you to be open to the taboo portion of the session, that is aimed at bringing you closer as a couple, introducing fun and adventurous kink into your bedroom repertoire; fostering a newly found desire as you explore your sexual boundaries together.